Dialogue between a mother and her child in her womb

Mom : Assalamualaikum my dear. How are you today?

Baby : Waalaikumussalam my dear mom. I'm feeling good today mom. But there are something growing out from my body!!! (his arms & legs) what are these mom? I don't like it. It keeps getting in my way. I can't move as freely as I used to be before!

Mom : Owh that are your hands and your legs my darling. Alhamdulillah, you are growing as you should.

Baby : Can you make it go away mom? I don't need these hands and legs. They are of no use to me now.

Mom : You must not say that! Be grateful dear. You will need them when you are born. You will need it to walk on this earth. To be Allah's servant. You will be in such a great loss if you don't have them in the future.

End of conversation...

The baby doesn't know the difficulties that he is going to face on the earth if he doesn't have any hands or legs. Because he never used it in the womb. For him, his world is his mom's womb.

Can you see how similar we are and the baby? We have never ever encounter the life after death. We only know the world as the earth that we are living now. Just like an innocence baby. Our amal ma'ruf as our arms and legs in akhirah. We can live without them in this world right? But what about in akhirah? Can we leave without them? And we have been given so many reminders and guidances from Allah through His messenger and The Book, Quran. Who else can we trust if not our GOD, Allah? Think bout it ^_^

Reasons To Smile

1. Smiling makes us attractive

We are drawn to people who smile. There is an attraction factor. We want to know a smiling person and figure out what is so good. Frowns, scowls and grimaces all push people away ,but a smile draws them in.

2.Smiling changes our mood

Next time you are feeling down, try putting on a smile. There's a good chance you mood will change for the better. Smiling can trick the body into helping you change your mood.

3. Smiling is Contagious

When someone is smiling they lighten up the room, change the moods of others, and make things happier. A smiling person brings happiness with them. Smile lots and you will draw people to you.

4. Smiling Relieves Stress

Stress can really show up in our faces. Smiling helps to prevent us from looking tired, worn down, and overwhelmed. When you are stressed, take time to put on a smile. The stress should be reduced and you'll be better able to take action.

5. Smiling Boosts Your Immune System

Smiling helps the immune system to work better. When you smile, immune function improves possibly because you are more relaxed. revent the flu and colds by smiling.

6. Smiling Lowers Your Blood Pressure

When you smile, there is a measurable reduction in your blood pressure. Give it a try if you have a blood pressure monitor at home.Sit for a few minutes, take a reading. Then smile for a minute and take another reading while still smiling. Do you notice a difference?

7. Smiling Releases Endorphins, Natural Pain Killers and Serotonin

Studies have shown that smiling releases endorphins, natural pain killers, and serotonin. Together these three make us feel good. Smiling is a natural drug.

8. Smiling Lifts the Face and Makes You Look Younger

The muscles we use to smile lift the face, making a person appear younger. Don't go for a face lift, just try smiling your way through the day! you'll look younger and feel better.

9. Smiling Makes You Seem Successful

Smiling people appear more confident, are more likely to be promoted, and more likely to be approached. Put on a smile at meetings and appointments and people will react to you differently.

10. Smiling Helps You Stay Positive

Try this test: Smile. Now try to think of something negative without losing the smile. It's hard. When we smile our body is sending the rest of us a message that "Life is Good!" Stay away from depression, stress and worry by smiling.

FRIENDSHIP - Tips For A Special Relationship

Friendship is a most beautiful thing happened to human being. We all meet some people with whom we never had a kinship, but they become so special in our life that it becomes hard to live without them. Let us see some points we should consider while playing a role in friendship. Many poets have described friendship as one of the most fascinating bond we ever make in our life. It's the most beautiful thing that happens to us.

Friendship is a relation that is entirely based on trust, belief of two friends in each other. We come across many things in our lives, about which we do not tell anything to people near and dear to us, but we freely tell everything to our friends. Many people find good friends but they fail to continue with their friendship, because they do not know their role as a friend.Let us see some important points that we should take care of if we wish to be good friend for someone:

Be a secrete admirer of your friend:

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  If your friend is good at something then do not praise him/her in his/her presence. Praising a person for what he/she is good, does not improve his/her qualities, but can cause over-confidence to be induced in him/her, which surely will be harmful for your friend. A good friend should never miss an opportunity to praise his/her friend in front of others when he/she is not around.

Don't proved him/her wrong in public:

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  As it is important not to praise a friend openly in his/her presence, it is also very much important to abstain from proving him/her wrong in front of other people. Take him/her away from the crowd and let him/her know where he/she is wrong. There is no point in proving your friend wrong in other's presence; it will spoil your friend's image in other's view. And additionally your friendship will be in danger.

Try to understand your friend:

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  It is always important to understand what your friend is worried about or what problems he/she is facing. Always try to understand the situation your friend is in and try to soothe him/her. It is evident that if people are undergoing some problems, they will not speak up their problems to their brothers or sisters, they will instead tell everything to their friends. Let your friend speak up, just listen to him/her and be with him/her until your friend does not come out of frustration.

Pull Your Friend Away From Making Mistakes:

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  If your friend is doing something wrong, it is your duty to let him/her know it at earliest. Keep in mind; best friend has to play a role of critic if he/she wants his/her friend to stop doing wrong things. But again keep in mind not to show your friends mistakes in front of other people. Sometimes it is important to understand your friend's intentions behind his/her actions and try to analyze situation, then only you should give your opinion.

The Ego Problem:

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  Never let ego spoil your friendship. It is no reason to be jealous if your friend is not at all able to speak to you and is with someone else, you have to be his/her friend, do not expect word of gratitude from the person you think is your friend. Sometimes there could be a clash between you and your friend, and you both stop talking to each other for some time, it is not at all wrong to speak first and say sorry to your friend, no matter what happens.

Try to Teach Good Things:

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  If you are a true friend, you should never give your hungry friend a fish, instead, you should teach him/her how to fish, this will give your friend food for lifetime. A good friend will never wish his/her friend to be dependent on someone.

Do Not Interfere:

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  Most important point that one should take care of is that your friend has his/her own life and you should not interfere in his/her life. You have a right to tell your friend what is good and what is bad, but you do not have a right to make someone do what you wish. Hope this will help you out solve some of your problems you are facing in friendship.

Kuasa Seorang Perempuan...

KUASA LAYANAN PEREMPUAN

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  Kaum lelaki mudah goyah dan alah dengan layanan yang baik, apa lagi dari perempuan yang sangat dikasihi seperti isteri dan ibu. Layanan baik yang disalurkan kepada orang yang berhak menerimanya, bukan sahaja mendatangkan keredhaan Allah tetapi memungkinkan apa yang diminta akan dipenuhi dengan mudah.

KUASA DOA PEREMPUAN

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  Doa perempuan lebih makbul dari lelaki kerana sifat penyayangnya lebih kuat dari lelaki. Sebagaimana hadis Rasulullah saw: "Doa ibu itu lebih cepat makbul." Orang bertanya:"Kenapa ya Rasulllah?" Jawab baginda : "Ibu lebih penyayang dari bapa dan doa dari orang yang penyayang tidak akan sia-sia."

KUASA TAQWA PEREMPUAN

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  Ketaqwaan adalah kuasa paling sempurna dan terbaik dalam menangani apa jua masalah. Orang yang paling bertaqwa adalah orang yang paling dikasihi Allah. Allah tidak akan membiarkan orang yang dikasihiNya melainkan dipelihara serta sentiasa dirahmatiNya.
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  Kuasa taqwa lebih mudah diperolehi oleh perempuan berbanding lelaki kerana kehalusan budi yang ada pada perempuan adalah merupakan penjara daripada melakukan hal-hal yang mendatangkan dosa. Berbanding lelaki yang sebahagian hidupnya berada di luar rumah serta terdedah kepada pelbagai godaan, cubaan dan ujian.
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  Kekuasaan taqwa ini pula adalah kemuliaan yang diberikan oleh Allah swt sehingga setiap lelaki pasti memerlukan perempuan untuk menghirupkan udara ini atau dalam perkataan lain setiap lelaki pasti dilahirkan oleh perempuan kecuali Nabi Adam a.s. Sekuat-kuat lelaki, kuat lagi perempuan kerana lelaki itu sendirinya datang dari perut perempuan yang menghamilkannya dan melahirkannya ke dunia, kemudian melatih, mendidik, memelihara dari kecil hingga dewasa.
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  Kemuliaan perempuan akan lebih nyata, jika ditambah dengan ketaatan kepada kaum lelaki yang berhak atasnya sebagaimana maksud hadis Rasulullah saw: "Perempuan yang taat kepada suaminya, semua burung di udara, ikan di air, malaikat di langit, matahari dan bulan : semuanya beristighfar baginya (isteri) selagi mana ia masih taat kepada suaminya dan diredhainya (serta menjaga solat dan puasannya.

ni aku attached few pictures time mjls kahwin cousin kpd husband aku...only yg cute2 je..:) from time 2 time, aku aku attach lg gmbr2...tp kena tunggu 'kelapangan' yg aku ada laaa...hehehehe...

stay tuned!

HAPPY 28th BIRTHDAY!

Happy Birthday to you...happy birthday to you...happy birthday to DYA...happy birthday to you...:)


Wah...da 28 tahun rupanya aku ni...hehehe...actually, semalam birthday aku...30hb Mac... rasanya mcm baru kemarin jak aku celebrate birthday yg ke 18 tahun...kahkahkah...perasan plak!


Sedar x sedar...masa begitu pantas blalu...jika dulu aku single...pastu jadi isteri...tup2 x lama lagi da nak jadi "mommy" plak...:) bdebar2 rasa hati bl mhitung hari...yg pasti, aku da mula bsedia dr segi fizikal dan mental utk mnempuh fasa baru dlm hidup aku...


Mudah2an...dgn pningkatan usia ini akan mematangkan serta mjadikan diri lebih cekal dan kuat dlm mnempuh hari2 yg mdatang...insya-Allah!

Hidup Terlalu Singkat Untuk Membenci

Ah, terlalu sukar untuk memberi maaf. Bahkan lebih sukar daripada meminta maaf. Masih terasa tusukan rasa bagaikan sebuah dendam yang membara. Masih terngiang-ngiang segala kata. Masih terbayang semua tingkah dan perlakuan. Wajah 'orang-orang bersalah' itu terasa begitu menjengkelkan. Memberi maaf kepada mereka seolah-olah menggadaikan harga diri. Ah, apakah maruah ini terlalu murah untuk di sorong tarik dengan harga yang rendah? Dan cukup sakit, apabila mengenangkan 'musuh-musuh' itu tersenyum dengan kemenangan.

Namun, itu hanya bisik 'hati besarku'. Yang melantunkan suara ego dan marah. Kesat dan kesumat. Tetapi jauh dari dalam diri...ada suara lain yang bergetar. 'Hati kecil' yang tidak jemu-jemu mengingatkan. Suara tulus yang mendamaikan gelombang jiwa. Bisik telus yang meredakan amukan rasa.Maafkan, lupakan...cintai, sayangi...Berperang dengan mereka bererti berperang dengan diri sendiri. Begitu bisik hati kecil itu selalu.

Pada sebuah persimpangan rasa, tiba-tiba hati disapa oleh sebuah firman:"Tolaklah kejahatan dengan sebuah kebaikan.Nescaya engkau akan mendapati musuhmu akan menjadi seolah-olah saudara"Wahai diri,api jangan dilawan dengan api. Nanti bakarannya akan membakar diri sendiri. Menyimpan dendam sama seperti membina sebuah gunung berapi di dalam hati. Semakin besar dendam itu, maka semakin sakit hati yang menanggungnya. Musuh-musuh mu terus ketawa, sedangkan kau sendiri menderita meneguk bisa.Musim-musim terus berlalu sewajarnya mendewasakan aku. Pengalaman lampau sentiasa membuktikan bahawa permusuhan hanya akan memberi kepuasan sementara. Apabila 'fatamorgana' itu berlalu. Aku akan menjadi lebih dahaga daripada sebelumnya. Apakah akan ku terjah perangkap itu berkali-kali? Oh,tidak. Mukmin tidak akan terperosok dalam lubang yang sama dua kali. Begitu maksud sebuah sabda. Justeru? Cukup sekali!Biarlah musuh itu ketawa sepuas-puasnya. Beban rasa ini biarlah aku letakkan. Tidak akan ku bawa dalam safar kehidupan yang pendek ini. Hidup terlalu singkat untuk membenci. Bermusuh dengan orang lain, sama seperti bermusuh dengan diri sendiri. Memaafkan orang lain,sama seperti memaafkan diri sendiri. Kata bijak pandai: "Apa yang kita berikan akan kita terima kembali"Ah, betapa leganya sekarang...Benarlah bahawa kebaikan itu tampak sukar untuk dilaksanakan. Pahit. Sakit. Tetapi apabila dilaksanakan akan terasa kemanisannya. Manakala kejahatan itu tampak mudah, indah dan manis. Namun apabila dilakukan, pasti ada kekesalan, kepahitan dan keresahan. Ketika ini terasa benar apa yang selalu didengar di dalam tazkirah - yang punya tabsyir dan inzar - bahawa dosa itu sesuatu yang meresahkan. Dendam itu dosa. Memaafkan itu pahala. Memaafkan menjemput datangnya 'syurga' yang fana, sebelum syurga yang baqa'.

Kini hatiku tertanya-tanya lagi...siapa aku, yang begitu sukar memaafkan? Tuan? Tuhan. Aku hanya hamba. Sedangkan DIA Sang Pencipta itu Maha Pemaaf, Maha Pengampun, siapa aku yang kerdil ini untuk terus berdendam? Ya ALLAH, ampunkan aku. Sengaja atau tanpa sengaja, sering atau kekadang...aku 'terlanjur' menumpang hak-MU..

Oleh : Ustaz Pahrol Mohamad Juoi

* Beliau merupakan penulis jemputan di majalah ANIS. Artikel dipetik daripada majalah ANIS keluaran Disember 2007.

GOODBYE by Heather M. Williams

At first when we met

We said hi

Now we're still friends

But we've said goodbye

I gave you a chance

And you rejected

You said it's not good right now

And you stand corrected

You see what you've lost

At least I hope you do

You see what others can have

But not you

I don't mean to sound conceited

Or vain in any way

I'm just merely pointing out

What you had, and threw away

I liked you a lot

I honestly did

But did you feel the same?

Were there feelings you hid?

If you had feelings for me

You didn't show it

Because things are over now

And I didn't know it

If you didn't have feelings

Then why did you say so

When the only person you trust, lies

Then where do you go?

I just wanted to say

Thought you needed to know

These feelings I have

Need to be let go

Beautiful Poem by EE Cummings

i carry your heart with me (i carry it in my heart)
i am never without it
(anywhere i go you go, my dear;
and whatever is done by only me is your doing, my darling)

i fear no fate (for you are my fate, my sweet)
i want no world (for beautiful you are my world, my true)
and it's you are whatever a moon has always meant
and whatever a sun will always sing is you

here is the deepest secret nobody knows
(here is the root of the root and the bud of the bud and
the sky of the sky of a tree called life; which grows higher than the soul can hope
or mind can hide)
and this is the wonder that's keeping tha stars apart

i carry your your heart (i carry it in my heart)

semoga berbahagia...:)

assalamualaikum...

minta ampun...minta maaf sbb lama x update blog ni...hehehe...bizi siot bah! ni pun kira mcari kesempatan dlm kesempitan utk jenguk2 blog ni. so, pd sesapa yg slalu login tp nmpk xde apa2 yg updated, yg marah yaaa...:)

aku ada attached bberapa gmbr time mjls mrisik + btunang besfren aku, Norazalinah Jerain dgn putera hatinya (mcm kenal je ayat ni...tp d mana yaa?!), Zulhadi Mohd Zainey (dia ni pun besfren aku gak) last January. ni pun br aku dpt attached kat blog ni sbb...hehehehe...aku bizi 2-3 menjak ni...:)

to both Nor and Zul...congrats...smoga bkekalan hgga ke jinjang pelamin trus ke akhir hayat...

Amin!

HAPPY NEW YEAR 2009!

salam...

Aku rasa x tlewat utk ucapkan Selamat Tahun Baru 2009...(even da 19 ari blalu...) juga Selamat Menyambut Maal Hijrah 1430H....smoga kedatangan tahun hijrah dan masihi ini mbuka lembaran baru yang lebih baik bbanding tahun2 sebelumnya...

maaf ku pinta andai ada antara pengunjung2 blog aku ni mdapati blog ini x 'updated'...hehehe... almaklumlah...bila da cuti skola....blog ni pun cuti jgk le...mmg ada niat d hati nak updatekan blog ni tapi masa x mngizinkan...ampun beribu2 ampun! insya-Allah...kembali ke skola ni bmakna akan kembali aktif jgk le blog aku ni...itupun bgantung jgk dgn keja2 @ tugas2 yg mula menimbun awal tahun ni...bila da jd "org besar" a.k.a. "org penting" ni, kena bsiap sedia la mhadapi timbunan tugas yg menanti...:(

apa2 pun...aku harap korg x jemu2 mngunjungi blog aku ni...andai andai info @ cerita2 tbaru @ tkini...pasti aku akan war-warkan utk smua...

till we meet again...adios!

serrammm...siot!

PENUMPANG MALAM

Kisah gempar dan menyeramkan ini terjadi kepada seorang lelaki yang bekerja di Seremban. Pada hari tersebut (hari Khamis petang Jumaat) beliau terpaksa balik ke Kuala Pilah kerana keluarganya mengadakan kenduri arwah. Selesai kenduri lebih kurang pukul 11.00 malam, dia pun terpaksa berangkat balik ke seremban sendirian walaupun agak lewat kerana keesokkannya dia bekerja.
Sampai di Bukit Putus, jalan yang bengkang-bengkok tu, dia pun ternampak seorang perempuan berbaju putih sedang menahan keretanya. Hatinya tergerak pula ingin menolong. Lantas dia pun berhentikan keretanya dan bertanya "Apahalnya cik adik malam-malam buta kat sini?" "Abang.. tolonglah saya kereta saya rosak ni... Puas dah saya tahan kereta lain. Tapi semuanya tak nak berhenti. Boleh tak tumpangkan saya sampai ke Seremban aje? Saya boleh bayar berapa abang nak........" Entah macam mana dia pun tergerak hati nak menolong perempuan berbaju putih yang cantik tu... "Oklah...saya pun nak ke Seremban jugak." Terkeluar dari mulutnya... Tapi hatinya masih lagi was-was... Dia pun membuka pintu dan mempelawa perempuan itu masuk.
Perempuan tu bukannya nak duduk kat belakang, terus aje duduk di depan di sebelahnya. Nak juga ditegur tapi terlalu pantas perempuan tutup pintu dan terus lock pintu. Berdegup jugak hati lelaki tu. Dia cuba tenangkan dirinya...seolah-olah takde apa. Dia masih lagi membisu kerana menyesal kenapalah dia dengan mudah aje membenarkan seorang perempuan menumpang keretanya di tengah malam buta ni...seorang diri pulak tu...Tapi yang peliknya, hatinya macam ditarik-tarik supaya menolong perempuan tu...Padahal, dia tu memanglah penakut dengan perempuan! Masing-masing hanya diam membisu beberapa ketika...
Tiba-tiba...dia mula merasa seram & meremang bulu roma bila perempuan tu berbau wangi. Dia pun mulalah membaca ayat-ayat suci yang terlintas di kepalanya. Peluh mula membasahi dahinya. Dia makin tak senang duduk. Tiba - tiba bau busuk yang amat sangat menusuk masuk ke dalam hidungnye! Dia semakin panik! Entah apa yang hendak dibuat. Macam-macam bayangan dan cerita cerita seram bermain di fikirannya. Dia terus membaca ayat suci ...sampai tunggang terbalik ayat yang dibacanya... Dia menoleh kearah perempuan itu, Perempuan itu berkata" Abang! Boleh buka tingkap tak? Sebab tadi yang busuk tu saya terkentut ler!!!" Wanita itu terus tersipu sipu....
Kemudian mereka meneruskan perjalanan ke Seremban. Perempuan tu kelihatan agak bersinar bila kenderaan yang bertembung menyuluh ke arah keretanya. Dia pun memberanikan diri dengan menjeling ke arah perempuan tu bila sampai ke selekoh yang tajam. Perempuan tu juga memandang kat dia sambil tersenyum.Menampakkan giginya yang putih...ditambah lagi dengan baju yang dipakainya.... Dia pun beranikan diri dan bertanya.. "Kenapa cik adik ni pakai baju putih malam-malam ni??""Ni memang pakaian rasmi saya setiap malam jumaat...""Saya ada kelas yasin..." jawab perempuan tu."Tapi..putihnya lain macam aje...tak pernah pulak saya tengok" tanya lelaki tu lagi."Apa yang lain nya... sama aje. Eh, betul ke tak pernah tengok??"."Eyea...lain macam aje. seram pulak saya dibuatnya..."."Ehh takkan sampai seram...???" tanya perempuan tu lagi. Kemudian dia menambah,"Kalau abang nak baju putih abang cam saya nih..." dia berhenti dan tergelak kecil... "He..He..He..Pakai aje le Breeze colour baru!!!'"Lelaki tu bengang dan terus aje memecut keretanya...

How To Make Your Wife Happy? - Part 2

INTERCOURSE

• Start with "Bismillah" and the authentic doa.
• Enter into her in the proper place only (not the anus).
• Avoid intercourse during the monthly period because it is haram.

AIDING IN THE OBEDIENCE TO ALLAH

• Wake her up in the last third of the night to pray "Qiyam-al-Lail" (extra prayer done at night).
• Teach her what you know of the Qur'an and Hadith.
• Take her to Hajj and Umrah when you can afford to do so.

PATIENCE AND MILDNESS

• Problems are expected in every marriage so this is normal. What is wrong is excessive responses and magnifying problems until a martial breakdown.
• Anger should be shown when she exceeds the boundaries of Allah SWT, by delaying prayers etc...
• Forgive the mistakes she does to you.

PARDONING AND APPROPRIATE CENSURE

• Accounting her only for larger mistakes.
• Forgive mistakes done to her but account her for mistakes done in Allah's rights, e.g. delaying prayers etc...
• Remember all the good she does whenever she makes a mistake.
• Remember that all humans err so try to find excuses for her such as maybe she is tired, sad, having her monthly cycle or that her commitment to Islam is growing.
• Avoid attacking her for the bad cooking of the food as the Prophet PBUH never blamed any of his wives for this. If he likes the food, he eats and if he doesn't then he does not eat and does not comment.
• Before declaring her to be in error, try other indirect approaches that are more subtle than direct accusations.
• Escape from using insults and words that may hurt her feelings.
• When it is necessary to discuss a problem wait until you have privacy from others.
• Waiting until the anger has subsided a bit can help to keep a control on your words.

THE END...wallahualam!

hallu...

askum!

aku bosan sggh ari ni...xde keja apa nak dbuat. so, aku login dlm blog aku ni dan tpikir plak nak bg korg suma tgk wajah2 warga SMKAKK ni...1st pic2 aku dgn anggota Kor kadet Polis. aku sorg je pompuan..time 2 hari perasmian penutupan perkhemahan agung unit beruniform 2008. kat skola ni xde anggota pompuan...tp aku still jgk nak pki baju uniform aku 2...mahal tau aku buat! rugi klu x pakai...

2nd pic 2 adalah wajah2 warga pendidik d SMKAKK ni...cantik2 dan hensem2 kan..!? hehehehe...aku sorg je yg x pakai blazer...biar nampak lain drpd yg lain...senang korg nak fokus muka aku...hehehehe...

yang terbaru...

Sory coz lama x update blog aku ni...quite bz dgn aktiviti sekolah selepas exam...marking paper! ayoyo...last friday aku struggle gila2 check papers yg menggunung...fuhh!! itupun S/U exam da siap mengugut minta key-in markah...skrg ni, aku da bleh bnafas dgn lancar..sbb aku da siap mark papers! hahahahaha....

ni aku attached bberapa gambar yg aku edit mggunakan kecanggihan teknologi...cewah! so, pada sapa2 yg jeles tgk gambar2 ni, aku syorkan korg surf www.photofunia.com dan korg edit la gambar2 korg mjadi spt gambar2 aku yg hebat ni...selamat mencuba!

How To Make Your Wife Happy?

Dear husband,

BEAUTIFUL RECEPTION

After returning from work, school, travle, or whatever has seperated you:

• Begin with a good greeting.
• Start with salam and a smile. Salam is a sunnah and a doa for her as well.
• Shake her hand and leave the bad news for later!

SWEET SPEECH AND ENCHANTING INVITATIONS

• Choose words that are positive and avoid negatives ones.
• Give her your attention when you speak of she speaks.
• Speak with clarity and repeat words if necessary until she understands.
• Call her with the nice names that she likes, e.g. my sweet-heart, honey etc.

FRIENDLINESS AND RECREATION

• Spend time talking together.
• Spread to her goods news.
• Remember your good memories together.

ASSISTANCE IN THE HOUSEHOLD

• Doing what you as an individual can or like to do that helps out, especially if she sick or tired.
• The most important thing is making it obvious that you APPRECIATE her hard work.

CONSULTATION (SYURA)

• Specifically in family matters.
• Giving her the feeling that her opinion is important to you.
• Studying her opinion carefully.
• Be willing to change an opinion for hers if it is better.
• Thanking her for helping you with her opinions.

CONDUCT DURING TRAVEL

• Offer a warm farewell and good advice.
• Ask her to do'a for you.
• Ask relatives and friends to take care of the family in your absence.
• Give her enough moey for what she might need.
• Try to stay in touch with her whether by phone, e-mail, letters, etc...
• Return as soon as possible.
• Bring her a gift!
• Avoid returning at an unexpected time or at night.
• Take her with you if possible.

FINANCIAL SUPPORT

• The husband needs to be generous within his financial capabilities. He should not be a miser with his money (nor wasteful).
• He gets rewards for all what he spends on her substances even for a small piece of bread that he feeds her by his hands (hadith).
• He is strongly encouraged to give to her before she asks him.

Wallahu'alam...

gelak sket...

TEKA TEKI
1) Lubang ape yang rasanye hangat, nikmat dan nyaman?
Answer: LUBANGun pagi2, tarik selimut pas tu tido balik.

2) Minyak ape yang disukai oleh lelaki?
Answer: MINYAKsikan pertandingan bolasepak Liga-M

3) Kuih ape yang bungkusnya di dalam, isinya di luar?
Answer: Kuih salah bikin.

4) Binatang ape power Karate?
Answer: Kuda belang. Cube kira brape black belt dia ade.

5) Siape yang menemukan dompet kulit?
Answer: Yang menemukan dompet kulit tersebut tolong pulangkan kepada saye.

6) Pintu ape yang walaupun dengan 10 org pun tak leh nak tolak?
Answer: Pintu yang ade tulis TARIK

7) Saya ade 3 kepala,4 tangan dan 5 kaki…siapakah saya?
Answer: Pembohong…

8) Apa dia Jauh di mata, dekat di hati?
Answer: Usus

9) binatang tubuhnya kat kepala?
Answer: Kutu

10) Nenek sape jalannya meloncat-loncat?
Answer: Neneknye si katak

11) Knape lelaki jarang kene penyakit anjing gila?
Answer: Sbb lelaki ni kan buaya

12) Ape beza sekretari baik ngan sekretari kurang baik?
Answer:- Sekretari baik………………Selamat pagi tuan- Sekretari kurang baik………..Dah pagi ni tuan

13 ) Ape persamaan Michael Jordan ngan Michael Jackson?
Answer: Dua-dua tak kenal korang…hehehe..

15) Sape yang kalau dipanggil, diemenjenguk ke atas?
Answer: Tukang gali kubur

16) Nak mencari sikit punye susah, bile dah dapat buang, ape bendanya?
Answer: Tahi hidung dan Tahi telinga

17) Ape persamaan kain jemuran ngan telefon?
Answer: Dua-dua kalau dah kringgg bole diangkat…

18) Knape pokok kelapa kat depan rumah harus ditebang?
Answer: Mestilah kene tebang, sape nak cabut pokok kelapa gile ape…

19) Gajah terbang dengan ape?
Answer: Dengan susah payah…

gambar lagi..

aku attached lg a few gmbr kahwin aku..ada gmbr aku with my brother and my beloved mom...also gmbr2 aku dgn bj kahwin yg merah menyala...hehehe...merah sgt la mak ngah!

family holiday..

ni plak gmbr2 trip family sbelah mertua aku.. gmbr 1st tu kami ke Lok Kawi Wildlife Park. Gmbr2 slebihnya 2 time my in-law organized family trip ke Pulau Manukan...suma sedondon berT-shirt hijau...environmental friendly! hehehehe...

kenangan terindah...

Kat cni aku attached gmbr2 time mjlis kahwin aku tempohari. Aku sure pasti ada member2 yg x penah tgk gmbr2 kahwin aku ni...